By Jennifer Jahn
NKyTribune staff writer
When young Ellie Stidham was diagnosed with Stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma, her family’s world changed overnight. In the months since, one thing has remained constant: a community determined to support her every step of the way.
Rhabdomyosarcoma is a rare, aggressive form of cancer that developw in skeletal muscle tissue.
That support will take center stage at a carnival-themed benefit, where families can enjoy games, food and entertainment while helping ease the financial burden of Ellie’s ongoing treatment.
According to Ellie’s aunt, Kaylee Kramer, the carnival theme was an easy choice.
“Ellie loves a good carnival,” Kramer said. “The games, food, and being around people are all things that she enjoys, so we thought what could be better than that theme to bring the community together for her benefit.”
The event will feature carnival games, inflatable attractions, a bounce house, face painting, balloon art, a magic show by Jason the Great, silent auctions and raffles, carnival prizes, cotton candy, popcorn, Skelly’s Drank Tank lemonade, Kona Ice and other food vendors. Members of the Cincinnati Circus will also entertain guests throughout the day.
Kramer describes Ellie as a kind-hearted young girl who consistently puts others before herself. A black belt in taekwondo, softball player, artist and young woman of strong faith, Ellie has inspired those around her throughout her cancer journey.
“Since her diagnosis she has been so brave,” Kramer said. “She tries to find something to laugh and smile about every day, sharing this with all those around her.”
The benefit has brought together volunteers from Community Christian Academy, Family Church, Dominach’s Taekwondo, extended family and friends.
“It has been remarkable to see,” Kramer said. “Ellie is a special girl who has touched so many people with her kindness and love.”
Funds raised will help cover medical expenses, travel to appointments and other treatment-related costs not covered by insurance.
Kramer said the family’s challenges extend well beyond hospital visits.
“Trying to balance work and appointments, caring for the home and pets while in the hospital for extended periods of time, and still trying to provide normalcy for Ellie’s sibling has been challenging,” she said.
She said the family has been deeply encouraged by the community’s continued support through prayers, meals, cards and gifts. She also praised Ellie’s mother’s employer, Cultivate Behavioral Health and Education, for sending more than 100 electronic cards, care packages and gifts during one of Ellie’s extended hospital stays.
“They brought a smile to her face and hope in her heart that she was not fighting this fight alone,” Kramer said.
Those unable to attend the benefit can still help through the family’s meal train, donation page and event wish list. Most importantly, Kramer said, the family asks for continued prayers for peace, comfort and healing.
“Know that any donation is extremely appreciated and will go directly to helping Ellie and her family in the fight of their life against cancer,” Kramer said.
For event information please visit Ellie’s Carnival Event page. Click here for Ellie’s meal train and here for the event’s Amazon wish list.